sex talk.

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What is the average penis size?

the average penis is about 6 inches erect. all penises look different so do not fret if yours is thinker or thinner than the ones you seen in magazines or on television. Also, the penis may be darker than the rest of your body and/or it my curve a certain way when erect.
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How can i make my first time hurt less [female]?

you should start by having your guy finger you. it would be best to get used to the
penetration of two fingers before penetration of an erect penis.
another trick you can try it “practicing” yourself by using a dildo.
my last tip would be to bring lube just in case you have trouble getting wet. it is
important to be well lubricated for sex as mal-lubrication can cause soreness and
make it hurt more.

My vagina looks funny… :/

what can i use to masturbate besides dildos/vibrators?

can you post a picture of yourself?

Any tips for anal sex?

lube lube lube!! i cannot stress this enough. Lubrication makes anal entry soo much easier.
If you’re using a condom always use a water-based lubricant, as these are compatible with the latex in condoms. Oil based lubes can weaken condoms, however, are great if you are NOT using a condom.
DO NOT let him reenter the vagina from the anus without switching the condom first.
TAKE IT SLOW. seriously, be gentle, especially if it is her first time engaging in anal sex.
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Are all females able to squirt?

this topic is debated, but not scientifically proven. in my opinion, no. some women can squirt with ease, while other women are not capable of squirting.

I wash my pussy regularly, but it still smells. What can I do?

first know that vagina’s are supposed to be a bit musky. it’s normal.
but if you’re smell is ever unusual to you [if it ever changes in any way] consult your gyno. remember that vaginal secretions should never be foul. this could be a sign of bacterial infections.
if it’s just a bit musty from, let’s say, exercise or a long day, just wash with soap and warm water. If you prefer, use a feminine wash like Summer’s Eve for example.

Blow job tips?

the penis is sensitive so watch those teeth.
his balls need loving too.
don’t be boring. switch it up and be playful by mixing the speed and pressure variations.
take a few second to show just his tip (head of the penis) some alone time love. try this: take on hand a slightly grip the base of his shaft, then suck on the tip of his penis like a lollipop.
one forgotten area is the base of the shaft. This area also packs a lot of nerve endings but is almost always ignored during a BJ. Try this: with one hand, use the tip of the index finger and the thumb to lightly grip right under the head of the penis (where it kind of dips in/folds over) and to hold up the penis. Use the other hand to gently massage his balls. With you tongue and/or lips, give the base of his shaft a nice treat.
try this: place both hands on his shaft so that it is completely covered except for the tip. take your tongue and lick the hole on the tip of his penis.
eye contact is super sexy while giving a good BJ.
slowly lick the “seam” on the underside of his penis from the bottom to the top.
(more may be added to this section later)

Should i be concerned if he is uncircumcised?

How can i keep a healthy long distance relationship?

communication is key!
constantly talk to each other via: text msg, pic texts (great for reminding each other why you were attracted to one another in the first place), emails, phone calls, web cams, and instant messaging.
tell each other about your day in full details. It’ll not only keep the conversation going, it’ll help you guys get to know about each other more.

Where is the gspot?

The gspot is located on the front wall of the vagina about 2-3 inches in. To find it, take a finger, palm upward, and once inside (2-3 inches up) curl the finger upward feeling a spongey matter. that’s it.

How can i get my partner to try a threesome?

my advice for threesome is to talk to your partner about the threesome FIRST and lay down some ground rules (if u two agree upon some) just for the sake of your relationship (threesomes can be fun, but u can still get your feelings hurt). ask her what she wouldn’t want happening during the threesome; as well, you say what would bother you. make sure you’re BOTH completely comfortable with the idea. of course that would require both of you meeting the girl/guy who you’ll perform this with to make sure you’re both attracted to her. it is also very important you make sure you can trust this girl/guy and that all 3 of you are std/sti free. use protection!